Thursday, December 19, 2019

Missionary Visits; Family Snapshots; Utah State Fair

We continue to have visits from former missionaries who sometimes bring their families. This time it was Lexi Bradford (standing next to her brother).
Another day we had Darcie Povey stop by with her parents. They live in Clifton, Idaho. Her father's brother is married to my cousin Melanie, so my cousin is her aunt. My Aunt Anna Mae was Darcie's school bus driver. She knows Aunt Carol and Uncle Lyle as well. Small world!
Darcie came over for a visit another day with Alex Durfee and we fed them dinner.
When one of our senior missionary couples was in town, we invited them over for dinner. They were sure a spunky pair riding around on their 3-wheeled motorcycle whenever they got the chance.
They did such a great job working on base as military relations missionaries. The recruits loved them, as do we!!
We went to a wedding reception for a former missionary Braden Figgins. I thought the decorated swing set was a cute backdrop for a back yard reception. 

Kaytlin Porter came by one day to introduce us to her newfound love, Harley Yazzie.
We attended church when McKell Childs (next to me) returned home from her mission. It was like a little mini mission reunion with this group of missionaries.
Glen and I received callings in the ward. He is one of three rotating adult Sunday School teachers. I am one of four rotating ward organists. 

I had been missing the opportunity to play the organ and am happy to be asked to take my turn playing once again. I was ecstatic to see the addition made to the organ while I was gone. It's a small round mirror so the organist can see when the sacrament is finished being prepared. No more turning around on the bench to get a view of the sacrament table. 
We were asked to substitute two different times teaching the stake missionary preparation class. Glen absolutely loved being back in the missionary teaching mode. The girl in green is really good friends with one of our missionaries who is still serving. That was a fun connection.

We had the Goldens over for a holiday cook-out.
They had gone to Lagoon--hence the matching Lagoon t-shirts--and were enjoying the refreshing homemade ice cream.
The Golden children have been so good to come over and do weeding on the days they go to Lagoon. Work before play!! 

This particular day they did all the work and got to Lagoon and it was so crowded they just went back home. Unfair for the children, that's for sure!! Work and NO play that day.
Brooke is proudly showing the "Paws for Praise" certificate she had received from one of her teachers praising her for being focused, listening carefully and working hard. Good for her!!
Brooke won a writing competition in the preteen division and the Mayor of our city presented her with a certificate and a gift card. 
We got tickets to President Nelson's 95th birthday party at the conference center and invited Dallas and Rebecca to go with us. We ate at the Lion House before the event.

It was a very impressive program with lots of beautiful singing and wonderful tributes to our Prophet who is still going strong! 

Ben and Haley love playing games. Most of them are thinking/strategy games and I don't love those as much. This one isn't as detailed and I was able to catch on and play with them.
Here are some pictures of Ben, Haley and Kade and some of their summer adventures. 







Here are a few picture of Jeff and Sarah's boys.







Jacob and Laurie's oldest son Luke won scholarship funds for his submission to an art contest.
Abe and Klarissa's son Newland had an Indiana Jones-themed birthday celebration.


Jacob took his family to a BYU game and they were able to get a photo taken with Zach Wilson.
Mom and I attended the funeral of the mother of my childhood friend, Kelley Carruth.
After the funeral, we went to Nani's home to pick her up so she could go to lunch with us.
We went to eat at The Greenery Restaurant at Rainbow Gardens.
After lunch, we looked at all the merchandise on display in the area which used to be a swimming pool. Interesting setup as people can wander down deep into the pool area or look at things up on the deck level. Unique thing to do with a non-functioning pool, I guess.
This is my dad and his living siblings. Arlo, Joe, Merlin, Carol and Lucille. Their brother Earl and sister Clarice have passed away.
Glen and I went to the Utah State Fair. 
We walked through the animal buildings which were much more enjoyable than walking through the buildings where people were trying to sell things.   





 We also liked the artwork building. These cakes were my favorite part of the craft building.
We opted out of riding any of the rides and went to find some food.
It was so crowded at the picnic tables that we had to keep our eye on who was finishing up and getting ready to leave. We spied one couple leaving a table and walked over to sit down in their place. When we looked at the couple seated across from us, we were flabbergasted to see we know them.

They are Wade and Karen Fenn from Clearfield. He was in Glen's bishopric those many years ago when we were young marrieds. It was so fun to eat dinner with them and get caught up on what has been happening through the years with each other. What a fun, random chance meeting!!
The butter sculpting display is always entertaining.
We called it a night. It certainly didn't compare at all to the Minnesota State Fair or even the San Diego County Fair, but it was still a fun date night experience.

Wednesday, December 18, 2019

Glen's New Job; Home Improvements; Polyp Problems

Some of our missionaries continue to stay in contact with us. Alex Durfee, Kylie Baugh and Kami Skolmoski stopped by for a visit. We enjoy hearing how they are doing and what is going on in their lives.
My Aunt Lucille invited us over to their new home for dessert one evening.
They also invited Don and Barbara Kopenhefer to join us. The Kopenhefers were one of our senior couples and after they got home from their mission, they bought a new home right across the street from Larry and Lucille and are now the best of friends. How fun!!
As we admired their home, Larry was anxious to show Glen his favorite home decor, which Glen really enjoyed as well.
Group photo in the Wilkensons' home before we walked across the street to see the Kopenhefers' home.
Their home is exactly the same, except for a different color scheme and flip flopped. We really liked the lay-out of these houses. One level is sure sounding more appealing the older we get.
On a beautiful summer day, we attended the Payson Temple.
It is a temple that has a lot of detail, both inside and out.
Two more of our missionaries have fallen in love with each other and were married there that day.
We joined Jared Hickman and his new bride Sabrina Thomas Hickman for an outdoor wedding luncheon after the temple.
It was fun for us to sit at the table where the group of former missionaries from our mission were gathered. We love to see what good, lasting friendships are formed from missionary associations. All these people served with us. 
Now let's move to a less fun topic...colonoscopies. We saw this billboard on the way to Carol's funeral and thought it appropriate since Glen had to change his colonoscopy from funeral day to the next week.
It was the last meal Glen could eat before he went on the liquid/laxative diet the next day and so he was fueling himself to his liking.
The next day it was Gatorade and laxatives. Somehow it does not seem healthy or wise to down 4 laxative pills and an ENTIRE bottle of Miralax--a 14-day supply--all in one evening!!!! Then he got all comfy so he could head down to the basement and wait for the "magic" to happen.
Meanwhile, Ben got his report back from the gastro doctor saying his polyp type removed from his colon was benign hyperplastic. He is supposed to have his next colonoscopy in 5 years.

Glen survived the night and was ready for his procedures (plural). This guy not only has a green dot for a colonoscopy, but also a yellow dot for an EGD (esophagogastroduodenoscopy in case you were wondering). 
Basically it means he was getting an upper and lower scope. Lucky guy!
And the results of his scopes were he had two 5 mm polyps in his colon, 2 small polyps and 2 small ulcers in his stomach. He was told to report back for a colonoscopy in 5 years. 

In keeping with his after-colonoscopy tradition, we stopped at Arby's on the way home for his lunch.
It had been 10 years since my last colonoscopy, so I decided to join in the family fun.

My prep included going off my blood thinner medication and supplementing for 3 days with 5 shots of Lovenox in my stomach along with all the other fun colon cleanse stuff. I guess this photo is reminding me we went to the temple before I got busy with my cleansing.
I survived the cleanse and reported for duty the next morning. I told the doctor he better not find anything in my colon because all the colon issues are from Glen's side of the family. 

Alas! There were some small polyps lurking inside me as well. So now the kids don't just have their dad to blame for all their polyps and for their need to have colonoscopies every 3 to 5 years.   
In staying true to tradition once again, Glen was craving Arby's after the colonoscopy. It didn't matter that it was MY colonoscopy this time and not his.
I opted out of Arby's and ate a waffle when we got home.
Jacob and Abe both got in on the colonoscopy fun as well.

Abe, who provided no photos of his experience, had a big 10 mm polyp. He reported, "Tied for first (with Sarah) with biggest polyp." It's a good thing he finally succumbed to having his first colonoscopy done well before the recommended age of 50. He gets to have a repeat in 3 years.

Jacob was the one and only family member who was completely clean. He doesn't have to go back for 10 years. As he reported to the family his results, he wrote, "Basically, I'm a perfect physical specimen."
We had a lot of home improvement projects going on since we got home. I was so happy when the flat mirror was removed from the main floor bathroom, patches and painting was done, and a framed mirror was hung in its place.


We traded in our queen mattress for an adjustable king-size bed. Now I don't have to prop myself up all through the night on a bunch of pillows. I can just raise the head of my side of the bed a little and voila!! It's so much more comfortable this way.
I was happy to find curtains to match the new bedspread.
Other home improvements were going on as well. These furniture touch-up markers that Sarah let me "borrow" have now become mine because I used them so much, loved them so much and refused to give them back.
I was going through the entire house spending hours doing touch up on all the wood furniture I could see. It turned a scratched rocking chair, a chipped table and a dinged up dresser (among all the other wood furniture) into good-as-new furniture once again. I was so thrilled I could hardly contain my satisfaction at my efforts.


I scrubbed the upholstery on the kitchen stools and set them out on the deck to dry. Glen and I continue to admire the upgraded deck we had installed right before we left on our mission.

We never really got the chance to use it or enjoy it. We were thrilled Sarah's little boys didn't have to worry about getting slivers from the old deck. This one is nice and smooth and doesn't need upkeep. We love it!!
Glen had planned to come home from our mission and go right back to work at G&K. They told him a job would be waiting for him and he was happy to think about having that option. But, shortly after we arrived in California, Glen received the sad news that G&K had been sold to its competitor Cintas. That meant no chance of a job for him upon our return.

He got busy applying for various jobs and felt like he would like to work for the Church. He was able to secure a job there in the Welfare and Self Reliance Department. He is a manager over 47 stakes. His area is Taylorsville, Holladay, Cottonwood and Murray.

He looked so handsome as he was leaving for his first day of work. It was right when we were seeing posts of school children leaving home to head off to their first day of school.

I couldn't resist posting a photo of Glen leaving home to head off to his first day of work.
Off he went in our new car. He had decided we were only going to buy one car and wait to see what kind of a job he got and see if the job provided him with a car. When he got this job, we started talking about getting another car until...
...we got the surprising news that the Church was providing him with a car. We were so happy when we learned it is an all-wheel drive so it will be better driving in the snow than a regular car. Sarah dubbed it "The Golden Nugget."
Glen learned he would be working from home and going out on appointments some during the days and others on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evenings and sometimes he would have appointments on Sundays. It all depends upon when the stake presidents are willing to meet with him.

He was given two computer monitors, a laptop and a keyboard to add to his personal laptop, my laptop and my computer monitor and keyboard. So much electronic stuff for one office. Something had to be done to solve our problem of how to arrange the office to accommodate everything and both of us.
We went shopping to try and find office furniture for two desks that would work in this room. I was looking online for furniture. We were just not coming up with anything that would work for us. It was at the point where an office designer was going to call and schedule an appointment to come out for a consultation with us when I got a divinely inspired idea.

I asked Glen if it would be possible to remove the center desk part of the U-shaped desk and attach the short end to the other part of the desk and turn it into an L-shaped desk. Glen said he would have to cut a piece out of the desk and get some brackets to hold the desk together, but he was sure he could do it.

We moved the bookshelf by the window over by the closet and moved the file cabinet and printer to the other side of the room to even out the desk after Glen completed his handiwork.
With very minimal expense, we were able to turn the office into a great working space for both of us. It looks so much better in there now with all the monitors lined up along the far wall. It actually feels a lot more spacious in there now. We love it!! 

It was lovely to see the beautiful sunsets over the ocean in California, but we have had lots of reminders of how beautiful the sunsets are here in Utah as well.

Sunday, December 15, 2019

Quotes of the Week

The unity we seek in our families and in the church will come as we allow the Holy Ghost to affect what we see when we look at one another and even when we think of each other. The Spirit sees with the pure love of Christ.
--Henry B. Eyring

We will find our Father's voice in many places. We will find it when we pray, study the scriptures, attend church, engage in faithful discussions, or go to the temple. Seeking His voice in any one of these places is good, but seeking it in many of them is even better.
--David Homer

Some will say, "You don't understand my situation." I may not, but I testify that there is One who does understand. There is One who knows your burdens because of His sacrifice made in the garden and on the cross.
--Neil L. Andersen

Sunday, December 8, 2019

Quotes of the Week

Know personal peace and happiness are possible. Our earthly circumstances do not determine our peace or lack of it--true peace lies in our trust in our Heavenly Father and our love of our fellow man.
--Kristen Oaks

Each of you is a daughter of God. Reflect on all the wondrous meaning of that one paramount fact. He who is our Eternal Father has blessed you with miraculous powers... He never intended that you should be less than the crowning glory of His creations.
--Gordon B. Hinckley

Knowing that the gospel is true is the essence of a testimony. Consistently being true to the gospel is the essence of conversion. We should know the gospel is true and be true to the gospel.
--David A. Bednar