Sunday, August 28, 2022

Quotes of the Week

 I want you all to know God, to be familiar with him... When we know how to come to him. God begins to unfold the heavens to us and tell us all about it.

--Joseph Smith

It is our faith that unlocks the power of God in our lives.

--Russell M. Nelson

The Gospel of Jesus Christ is exactly what is needed in the confused, contentious, and weary world.

--Russell M. Nelson

I testify that through the redeeming Atonement and glorious Resurrection of Jesus Christ, broken hearts can be healed, anguish can become peace, and distress can become hope. He can embrace us in His arms of mercy, comforting, empowering, and healing each of us.

--Reyna I. Aburto

Sunday, August 21, 2022

Quotes of the Week

 I testify that He has been, and is, indeed leading us along, as we seek to hear Him. He wants us to grow and to learn, even through--perhaps especially through --adversity.

--Russell M. Nelson

God does not need people who are flawless.

--Dieter F. Uchtdorf

One of the holiest of places on earth is the home--yes, even your home.

--Russell M. Nelson

Through Jesus Christ and His atoning sacrifice, we can experience a might change of mind and heart, bringing a fresh attitude, both toward God and toward life in general.

--Ulisses Soares

Sunday, August 14, 2022

Quotes of the Week

 Your valiant decisions will have eternal significance.

S. Gifford Nielsen

God cares a lot more about who we are, and who we are becoming, than about who we once were.

Dale G. Renlund

If you know of anyone who is alone, reach out--even if you feel alone too!

--Russell M. Nelson

Difficult trials often provide opportunities to grow that would not have come in any other way.

--Russell M. Nelson

Tuesday, August 9, 2022

Glen's Retirement Vacation--Vegas, Carlsbad, St. George (Part 2 - Oceanside, Mission Home, Tuacahn); Basement Flood

Our second full day in southern California we went on a long walk in Oceanside all around the harbor. This was my favorite Monday morning walk. 

Our Mondays were the days Glen spent reading and answering all the missionaries' letters, so those days we took extra long walks before he settled in for his long day at the computer.

This pavilion, surrounded by five palm trees, always catches my eye. It looks like a little oasis on the sandy beach. 

The lighthouse restaurant is another focal point at the harbor.
For entertainment, we would watch the sea lions sunning themselves on the docks or barking out sounds to other sea lions. Sometimes we could even see them frolicking in the water with each other. 
We were eager to drive by the mission home and see if it still looked the same knowing it had been sold and was no longer in the Church's possession.

Well were we shocked to see the house now!!!!

Here's how it looked when we lived there (minus the green awnings that we were happy to have removed when the house got tented for termites a few months after our arrival). 

As we turned onto Celinda Drive, we were laughing as we remembered how it took us the longest time to figure out which house was ours when we first moved there. We would always drive right by and have to turn around and figure out which exact house we were looking for.

Then, just like in the beginning, we drove right past the house once again!! The reason is its appearance had changed so drastically!!


I loved the big magnolia tree by the front door and the tall, purple flower plants that welcomed us when we first arrived.

Glen loved the small palm tree in the planter on the sidewalk leading to the house. We learned it takes many years to grow that particular palm tree and they are quite valuable.
I loved this row of bushes and palm trees lining the driveway as it made for a great backdrop for taking photos of any visitors who came to see us. 

I was happy to see they had left the trees, but they got rid of the bushes and the two bird of paradise plants on both ends. Those flowers would bloom nearly year-round and were so unique to the area.
That walk down memory lane made us sad!! So we opted for another memory when we ate at Panera Bread for lunch. We would pick up salads for the restricted-diet missionaries before each zone conference. 
The restaurant was part of the Carlsbad Mall, so we went for a walk through that mall for old time's sake. We never really went there. My memory of that mall was when our house got tented (over my birthday weekend!!), and I was so anxious to get back in the home to get all our stuff put away. 

When I went to the house, I discovered men had just arrived to start taking down the tent. I had several hours before I could get into the house and decided to spend that time at the mall when I was wishing I could use that precious time to get the house back in order.

As per Glen's voiced desire before we ever went to California--we ate at Carlsbad Coyote Grill a second time to enjoy our favorite ribs while we were in town those few days.
We got there shortly before that evening's musical entertainment began and got to enjoy our meal while listening to a live band. 

There weren't so many of the regulars that we had seen on karaoke night, but the group that was there this night sure enjoyed dancing to the music. It was so relaxing and entertaining to be there once again.
We started our day with a walk at Oceanside harbor and ended our walk in Oceanside. We saw the house where some of the scenes from the first Top Gun movie were filmed. It has been refurbished and is now a dessert restaurant where homemade hand-held pies are served.

We finished out the evening by going to the Oceanside pier to watch the surfers, the fishermen and the sunset. What a beautiful way to end our last day in southern California.
Glen and I both continue to have this sentiment about the place we lived for three years.
In the morning we headed toward Utah making a stop for two days in St. George. We picked Magleby's for our dinner before heading to Tuacahn for our first play.


We were having a new experience by going to a play in the indoor theater. We saw Buddy Holly and learned so much about that up-and-coming singer whose life was so tragically cut short at the age of 22 when he died in a plane crash.

We were so happy we had schedule to be indoors that evening because it rained during the show--which didn't affect us at all. We later learned that the outdoor play had to be canceled because of the rain. HOW SAD for those people who didn't get to see Joseph that night.
I thought the play was so interesting and very entertaining. All the performers were extremely talented musically. They all sang and they all played various instruments. The two women were amazing on the pianos. 

The bass player really hammed it up by getting in all sorts of different positions moving his bass all around and upside down while he was playing it. So funny!!
We met our missionary Bret Wilson and his wife Kassidy for lunch at Black Bear Diner. It was fun to hear their love story and learn what they are doing at this point in their lives. 
For dinner that evening we chose to pig in while we pigged out eating our barbecue dinner.
It looks like Glen didn't get enough ribs while in Carlsbad--he ordered them again at this restaurant. He did report that he had to work to get the meat off the bones at this place. At the Carlsbad Coyote Grill the meat easily comes off to leave clean bones.

We went for ice cream at Handel's because we heard it was a hotspot in town. It was delicious and was a great cool down for us before we went to the play.
Off to Tuacahn we went to see the outdoor play of David Archuletta starring in Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. Boy were we happy to see blue skies overhead!!

It was a fun play to see. We have seen it several times in other theaters. The changing sets were so colorful and beautiful with the ending being very theatrical as Joseph climbs a long staircase with each step lighting up in a different color until he was standing at the top displaying his coat of many colors. Loved it!!
I had to laugh when we were walking through Costco that afternoon in St. George. Glen saw this BYU blanket, put it in the cart and told me he was buying himself a retirement gift!! 

He mentioned how the quilt he has been using for warmth when he is in the basement sitting in his recliner is getting very worn out. Now he can cover himself in BYU blue and stay cozy with this.

Speaking of the basement... Glen had gone down there for a while after we had gotten home from St. George. We had a massive torrential downpour when we were eating dinner. 

When Glen was leaving the basement to go up to sleep, he noticed our basement had flooded. YIKES!!!!!

Right outside the basement door is a drain which apparently could not handle so much water all at once. We thought it might have been clogged, but Glen has since poured 10 gallons of water down there all at once and it had no trouble with that much water.
Thankfully we own a carpet cleaner, so Glen used that to suck up gallon after gallon after gallon of water into the wee hours of the morning. UGH!! It did make a big difference, but we still had wetness to deal with.
We only have one fan, so we got that blowing over the carpet. We also got two space heaters set up down there and were hoping for the best.

On Sunday, I was asking our fellow prison leaders if any of them have an industrial-size fan for drying carpets and thankfully our friends the Kopenhefers have one that they were able to loan us. 

Don pulled up the carpet in the corner and placed that thing there and it literally raised the carpet up all through that part of the room. What a relief!! 

It has been working so well, we are feeling good about giving it back to him right before we go out of town on our next adventure.

PRISON UPDATE

We were given the okay to be able to go into the new prison the week we were out of town. It was killing Glen to not be there for the first week. It was all new and interesting as our leaders were trying to figure things out and learn what the new protocols are now while we are inside the prison.

Of course our team did a great job without us because each one of them are wonderfully, capable leaders. They shared with us what they learned as we planned what should happen this week.

The Kopenhefers and the Briscoes were not able to go in last week as well because the prison did not have their new badges ready. So we three couples were like deer in the headlights on Sunday.

It turned out to be a blessing that only half the men inmates were allowed to attend worship service and Sunday School. The other half are on Covid restriction still. 

The reason it was a blessing is because the chapel is so small that it gets filled with only half the men--probably we only had a third of the amount of men who usually attend. It is a real quandary for us as we are scratching our heads wondering why the chapel is so very tiny in this facility in this brand new prison. 

At the old Draper prison, this group of men had a nice-sized, free-standing chapel they could go to for religious activities and meetings. 

It seems inevitable that we are going to have to have multiple meetings for these men. That will make for long Sundays for us leaders. 

Glen is frustrated that we will be missing two more Sundays while we are in this trial-and-error phase of trying to see what will work the best. I think only time will tell. We sure don't want men not coming because there is no room for them. It is CRAZY!!!! 

And I won't even go into how much room the wheelchairs take up. Why in the world was no consideration put into that when the plans were made for the new prison??!!??

More to come on how this all turns out.

Sunday, August 7, 2022

Glen's Retirement Vacation--Vegas, Carlsbad, St. George (Part 1 - Guest Speakers, Excells, Carlsbad, San Diego)

Glen decided to retire. He had been threatening to do so for quite a while and then he set a date for the end of July. It was at the point that I realized he was serious. 😏

It was the perfect time to plan a fun trip. Sarah had invited us to be the guest speakers at her girls' camp retreat on Friday night. 

Glen had turned in his work car and his work computer and monitors the day before, so he was a free man!!

Sarah had been warning us that there had been a lot of rain in their area and she was worried about her time with the girls on Mount Charleston. 

As we drove closer and closer to their campground, the blue sky overhead was merging into storm clouds. 

We arrived with the pizzas as Sarah had planned. Only, oops, she had added to the order and we were only given the original order. But no fear--there was a whole pizza leftover, so there was plenty. 
It was a wonderful report Sarah gave about how their daytime activities had gone just as planned. By the look of the sky, we were feeling pretty confident we would be able to do our speaking with no rain.

Notice Jeff and Lincoln (their backs are to the camera) at the camp. The other three boys were keeping themselves busy at their tent and elsewhere around the campground. They were having the time of their lives as boys are wont to do in the great outdoors.
After dinner we gathered around the [propane] campfire for our messages. It was such a beautiful area to be camping. It was not far from Sarah's home and the best part was the temperature was cool--notice the jackets we are wearing.
After we spoke and the girls were making s'mores, we were watching the dark clouds and the lightning in the distance. Sure enough the storm rolled in and we took that as our cue to leave. 

Sarah had been so nervous about the safety of everyone. As we were driving down the mountain, it started to hail. YIKES!!

We hadn't been at our hotel long before Sarah texted to tell us they had all bailed. Sad it turned out that way--especially for Sarah's boys who were so excited to be sleeping in a tent. 

The weather had gotten so bad they had run to their cars for cover to wait out the storm. When it became evident it was going to last for a while and there was lots of lightning, they drove home--leaving all their stuff behind.

After sleeping in their own beds, a few of them went back up to the campsite in the morning to gather up everyone's stuff. The blessing of it all was everything Sarah had planned had gone without a hitch. The only thing left was sleeping and packing up in the morning to come home. 

I had to laugh about her saying she had thought about and worried about various things as she was planning this event. Something she had not even considered in the heat and desert of Las Vegas was a huge lightning storm. She said they have barely even seen rain the whole time they have lived in Vegas.
We figured Sarah would not want to cook the next day, so we got some Raising Caine's chicken, fries and bread to eat for lunch.
That evening we went to Ohjah's which seems to be a popular place for the boys to want to eat. It is enjoyable to watch the chef cooking at the table. Throwing the shrimp into everyone's mouths at the end is always entertaining.

We attended church with Sarah's family. 
They had such good meetings as it was the week everyone in the Church was talking about missionary work. It was so interesting and touching listening to people's conversion stories in both sacrament meeting and Sunday school.
For the Excells' Come Follow Me lesson (they call in Night Light), Sarah had the boys do the same scavenger hunt that she had her Young Women do the day before.
The boys needed some help with putting the puzzle together at the end.
SUCCESS!! Sarah is always very creative and enjoys thinking up and making things like this for others to solve.

Sarah fixed us some great meals that day and, of course, it wouldn't be Sunday without eating popcorn and watching a family movie together. 

We loved our time spent with Jeff, Sarah, Eli, Carson, Lincoln and Jonah. 
On Monday we drove to Carlsbad, California. It was the first time we have been back to our mission after having been gone from there for over 3 years. 

First thing on our to-do list was go to Carlsbad Coyote Grill to eat some ribs. For these past years we have lamented about how much we love and miss eating those ribs. 
We would always get there early, before the party crowd arrived, when we were on our mission. This time, we sat outside on the party patio enjoying the view and listening to the karaoke performers later in the evening.

It was very interesting watching probably 25-30 senior citizens congregate on that patio so they could participate in the karaoke entertainment. They all seemed to know each other as they greeted each other warmly and would get up and dance with each other. 
Glen insisted we walk the sidewalk along the Carlsbad beach to watch the sunset. That used to be one of our favorite walks on Mondays. It is so relaxing to watch and listen to the ocean waves. 

There were a lot of surfers in the water the days we were there. Must have been some good waves in that part of the ocean.
The next morning we headed off to another favorite Monday morning walk--through the Carlsbad Campground. Once again there were so many surfers we almost didn't get a parking space.

Yup! This is another of Glen's happy places. He absolutely loved walking through the campground looking at all the campers and their camping set-ups.

As we were walking along and a couple was approaching us, we hear, "Thomases?!?!?" Turns out Clark and Kathleen Wardle also enjoy walking through the campground. How random that we both would choose that walk that morning at the same time of the day so we could run into each other.
Kathleen was the person Klarissa told us to look up once we got to Carlsbad. She knows Kathleen's daughter and highly recommended their family as great future friends for us. 

Shortly after arriving in the mission, we had to host a dinner at our home with all the stake presidents, the area seventy, the temple president and their wives. That seemed so overwhelming since I hadn't really even learned where things were in the mission home kitchen.

Thankfully, the previous mission president's wife had arranged for someone to decorate the tables, cook the food, and serve the meal to all of us that evening. Turns out the person she had gotten was Kathleen Wardle. She was a lifesaver to us!!!!

She got her daughters to help with the evening. Here's picture proof we were blessed by her service to us!!
We decided to spend some time that day in San Diego. We went to Point Loma to see all the things located on that point of land overlooking the ocean.

We walked down to the tidepool access (but saw no tidepools as the tide was too high.



We looked up and saw the lighthouse looking very small up on the hill.
We drove up to the Cabrillo National Monument visitor center. 
That is where we saw some great views.

From a distance we could see the Cabrillo Monument.
This is what it looked like up close. 
Another landmark off in the distance--the lighthouse. 
Once we walked closer, we got a much better view of it.

There was a place to do whale watching, but it is not the time of the year for the whales to be in these waters.
The road we took drove us right through Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery. It is a federal military cemetery and was very impressive with the neatly-lined up rows of white markers that span quite a distance.



I insisted we go to Ghiradelli's for ice cream at the same place we took the assistants while we were waiting for the new batch of missionaries to arrive after we had dropped off the departing missionaries. What a great way to spend that extra time! 

We enjoyed it as our lunch snack this particular day.
Our next stop was La Jolla Cove. Steven and Patricia took us there when they came to visit us on our mission. We saw lots of pelicans sunning themselves on the rocks.
There is a walkway that takes you right in the ocean. At the very end is the wet zone from the violent splashing of the waves. 
The last time we were there, the whole cove was full of seals. This time there was not a seal in sight--only people. I guess it is not seal time like it is not whale time??
We took the coastal highway on the way home, stopping for dinner at California Pizza Kitchen. 

We had bought a bunch of gift certificates to that restaurant and then all the restaurants in Utah have closed. So, we wanted to use some of those certificates in California.

What a great day we had in San Diego!! 
That evening we went to see President and Sister Marin at their home. They have very recently returned home from serving as mission leaders in the Mexico Cancun Mission. 
Princessa, me, Glen, Linda, Israel, Natalie and Israel. Their son Jacob is serving a mission in Ethiopia and Ezra was not there.
What a wonderful way to end the day.