Sunday, March 31, 2019

Third Foot Surgery While On Mission, Annie's Canyon With Ben's Family

The day finally arrived for me to report for surgery.
My right foot has been healing nicely from its surgery and now it was time for the left foot.
It wasn't as painful walking in my stocking feet down to the operating room. All went well with getting in the I.V. the first time. In no time at all I was ready to be wheeled out to the car with my big, gray boot on my left foot.
Once at home, I was feeling a little sick to my stomach, so I had a barf bowl close by. 
All the way home I had told Glen over and over again that I was STARVING!!!! He cooked me up some eggs but I had hardly enough energy to eat them. I was feeling soooo drugged!!
Look at my chef! You might think he's smiling for the photo. I think he was smiling at how drugged I looked. As I am writing this, I am thinking back about how I can't even remember getting dressed after the surgery. HA!! Drugged!!
If my memory serves correctly--and it probably doesn't because I was drugged--I think I was getting a kick out of what Glen chose to eat for his dinner that evening. Cheese balls. He looks like a happy kid with his arm clutching that big barrel of cheese balls.
I really got a kick out of this very thoughtful get well card sent to me by two of our sister missionaries. 
Two days later, Rebecca had consented to drive Ben, Haley and baby Kade to the airport so they could come and visit us.


Oh happy day when they walked through the door and we got to see their little boy in person for the very first time. Don't get me wrong. we were very happy to see the two of them as well!




Snapped a photos of these two patiently waiting for the others to be ready to walk out the door to church. I opted to stay put on the couch with my foot up and icing it. 

I am happy to report I did not even take one pain pill after surgery. I took Tylenol for a few days, but nothing stronger than that. I have been so surprised at how little pain I have felt after these surgeries. 
Thomas family tradition of making popcorn. It was Kade's first experience of watching his grandpa sing "Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree" while the popper was getting going.
The new ones are always so fascinated in watching the popcorn come out of the popper.
It's never too early to introduce the fun game of Qwirkle to a person.
Monday morning found us back at the podiatrist's office so he could check for infection.
This time Dr. Dustin ran the scissors up the top side of the bandage to cut it off. He remembered that last time when he did it on the bottom of my foot I jerked away from him and screamed because my foot was so sensitive.
He pronounced that foot to be looking really good. Looks really yucky to me!! I had done a good job of keeping the swelling down.

And upon closer inspection, I was pleased to see my floating big toe looked more even with the rest of my toes. Hurrah!!
 He bandaged it up again and said to go back in a couple of weeks.

He took a paper towel and showed me how he cut the tendon going lengthwise across the top of my big toe. After he cut it, he stretched it a little and then sewed it back together in the smaller space in the middle section. 
Glen spent the rest of the day working on reading and answering the missionaries' letters.

That evening we had all our senior missionary couples over for dinner and home evening. Glen was the chef cooking all the meat on the grill. I just had to get the tables set.

We had sent Ben, Haley and Kade off for the night to have dinner at a restaurant. They had gone shopping and bought a jumper chair for the baby to bounce around in the doorway while we played games.

Glen had scheduled us a couple of free days while Ben's family was here. One of those days he went with them to hike Annie's Canyon and he offered to wear the baby carrier. Looks like the baby was happy with that arrangement. 







 
They made it out alive!!

Time to make the walk back to the car.

Haley cooked us up some delicious pizzas for dinner.
I had gone to the mission office for a morning health council meeting on Tuesday. I went to work on Thursday when we we had a trainer follow-up meeting for these missionaries and their trainers. 
Ben and Haley entertained themselves that day by going to the Fleet Science Museum at Balboa Park in San Diego.


Looks like Glen was at it again with his cheese balls for dinner routine.
And Haley jumped on board with the cheese balls as well.
It was nice having leftover pizza for dinner that evening. 

Quotes of the Week

"Belief is not so much like a painting we look at and admire and about which we discuss and theorize. It is more like a plow that we take into the fields and, by the sweat of our brow, create furrows in the earth that accept seeds and bear fruit that shall remain."
--Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"I pray that we will believe and receive the love the Savior has for each of us. His infinite and perfect love moved Him to atone for you and me."
--Russell M. Nelson

"We cannot just do and think what others are doing and thinking; we must live a guided life...Being spiritually self-reliant is hearing the Lord's voice through His Spirit for one's own life."
--Larry Y. Wilson

Sunday, March 24, 2019

It Snowed Here! Transfer #24 Completed

We had our new leadership training meeting with four new district leaders and two new sister training leaders. President Marin joined us for the meeting as a new Mission President in training.

Notice I am wearing a jacket. It got really cold (by Southern California standards) for a couple of weeks.
It was that time of the transfer cycle where we took the missionaries who have been here 12 weeks and their trainers to eat at Tequila Factory and then on a tour at Mormon Battalion.

The Allens have now replaced the Hemingways as Director of the Mormon Battalion. They are delightful people and stepped right in talking to the missionaries after the tour in a fun way and left good messages with the missionaries as the Hemingways used to do.
I knew it was unseasonably cold for a while in Southern California, but I was shocked to see white stuff on the freeway!!! Crazy!! Didn't last long, but I can now say it snowed while we were here.
Looks like it also snowed in Las Vegas. Looks like three of Sarah's four sons were enjoying playing outside in it.
We had our Mission Leadership Council (MLC). Here the zone leaders and sister training leaders are looking over the recent survey that the missionaries took to see what areas need improvement. Then we counseled together about what we should do as a mission in the various areas.


Elder Van Aarle, our vehicle coordinator, is always busy doing something or other.
I had postponed surgery on my left foot for two weeks because of Elder Klebingat's visit. Unfortunately, in the few days leading up to surgery, I got the shingles again for the second time.

Thankfully, I was able to recognize the symptoms and the rash, diagnosed myself and started on anti-viral medication. I got a second confirmation when I went to see Dr. Dustin for my pre-op visit. He encouraged me to keep taking the anti-viral medication and see how it progressed in the next couple of days.

I had been so worried the surgery would have to be rescheduled when I was better, but the medication worked quickly and I only had two small spots affected this time--one on my chest and another on the back of my head close to my neck.

Another thing I was worried about was Ben, Haley and baby Kade were coming to town. Young children who have not yet been immunized for chicken pox should not be around people with shingles. Haley called her pediatrician to ask about it and the doctor didn't seem concerned. The rashes were covered by a shirt or by hair on my head, and by the time they arrived, the sores were healing nicely.

Now back to my visit to the podiatrist. My favorite part of this surgery was looking at the x-rays of my floating big toe. He showed me a light view and then a dark view. So interesting to see that toe. Glen calls it my pointer toe.

Perhaps these x-rays show why the tops of my left shoe would get a hole in them from that big toenail pushing up on it!!! 


We went to the doctor on Monday, the day Glen is so busy spending hours and hours reading and answering the missionaries' letters. It was also the day we were going to be hosting the departing missionaries at our home for dinner and to spend the night with us.

Can I say how happy we were when the water remediation company came to survey our living room and do their measuring of the walls to see if they were finally dry after 10 days of the machines roaring.

Ta-da!!!! DRY!!! And the plastic make-shift walls were taken down. HURRAH!!!!
The plastic came down literally just a couple of hours before the missionaries showed up for dinner.
We were so thankful we could have our testimony meeting in what we call our "celestial room." We love that room and we love the feeling we have during our last meeting with our missionaries.
After the meeting, we always line up on the stairs for pictures. Such a perfect place since we can have differing heights for the photo.
(left to right) Elder Brightman, Elder Meyers
Sister Kovach, Sister Lee, Sister Hamblin, Sister Porter, Sister Durfee

The missionaries are given their departing packet that has their flight information, boarding pass, a departing letter from their Mission President and some other various things including their board card--the magnetic card hanging on the transfer board that Glen and the assistants look at during transfer planning.
The next morning we leave the house at 6:30 a.m. so we can get photos taken by the temple and then attend an 8:00 a.m. endowment session.

The information booth was empty. Usually there are two missionaries from the San Diego Mission manning the booth.
Off to the airport we go after the temple.
It is always hard to say good-bye to our dearly-beloved missionaries. Sister Porter, to my left, reminds me so much of my good friend Chris Janes and I will really miss her because of that and because she is a dear person herself.

After we watch the missionaries get through security, we then have several hours until the new missionaries arrive. We usually go to Tom Ham's Lighthouse. It is right by the water and we love it.

For some reason, as soon as we were finished eating our lunch, I was craving ice cream. It is probably because Steven and Patricia were such ice cream lovers and we had gone to get ice cream with them.

So, we decided to go back to the exact same ice cream place and treat the assistants to ice cream. Turns out it was a blessing we went there because we didn't have time to eat dinner once back at the mission office and so the ice cream held us over. I am happy to report I took another lactaid pill and was able to eat the ice cream without any tummy troubles.

Time to go back to the airport and pick up our newest arrival of 13 missionaries. It was a lot of hustling to get them all interviewed once we got back to the mission office before their trainers came to pick them up. But we did it!!
This is what our mission front office looks like on transfer day. Bikes galore!!
We always breathe a huge sigh of relief when we walk out of the mission office after we've had our short meeting assigning the new missionaries to their trainers and watch them walk off together. We pray for the best that they will be able to adjust quickly to missionary life and that all will be well in the companionship.

The usual schedule is to have the missionaries come back two days later for training. This time we had to have them come back the next day because the following day I was having foot surgery.

Halfway through the training, when they are getting so tired, Glen gives them an assignment to work on while they walk outside around the church building a couple of times. That does the trick to shake the tiredness out of them.
 
Once the training is finished, we feed them lunch and send them on their way.

 
Just as we closed a chapter with sending some missionaries home, we immediately open a new chapter as we begin to work with a whole new group of missionaries.
We are already impressed with this new batch and look forward to all the good works they will do while they are serving here.