It is always startling to receive a phone call in the middle of the night. I received just such a call around 1:50 a.m. yesterday.
As I groggily answered the phone and tried to sound alert, I was surprised to hear my daughter's voice on the phone. It was the pregnant daughter. The one whose voice I expected to hear in the middle of the night the first week of March--not the last week of January.
Her explanation for the phone call: her water had broken and she needed me to report for babysitting duty at her house ASAP. She had been very anxious thinking about how fast she might deliver this child since Carson's was a quick labor and delivery.
I drove the 30 minutes to her home and got set up on the couch to try and sleep the rest of what was left of what was going to be a very short night for me and what turned out to be a very long night and morning for Sarah and Jeff.
It was 12 hours later when Lincoln Blair Excell made his entrance into the world.
At 5 weeks early, he weighed 5 lbs. 7 ozs. He is in NICU being monitored and getting a little help with his breathing. He needs to figure out how to eat before he can go home. And he needs to be able to maintain his body temperature.
Sarah is doing well. Jeff is going back and forth taking care of baby boy #3 at the hospital and helping me take care of boys #1 and #2 here at our house.
Enjoy your rest while you can, Sarah, because the peaceful moments will probably be few and far between when all three sons are residing in the same household.
Congratulations to Jeff and Sarah on the beautiful addition to their family. What a sweet surprise!!
Thursday, January 29, 2015
Sunday, January 25, 2015
Quotes of the Week
"If we counted our blessings instead of our money, we would all be rich."
-- Linda Poindexter
"There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle, or you can live as if everything is a miracle."
-- Albert Einstein
"The struggle you're in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow. Don't give up."
-- Robert Tew
"What a man does for others, not what they do for him, gives him immortality."
-- Daniel Webster
Sunday, January 18, 2015
Quotes of the Week
"The best way out is always through."
-- Robert Frost
"The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and starting on the first one."
-- Mark Twain
"Because sometimes you have to step outside of the person you've been, and remember the person you were meant to be, the person you wanted to be, the person you are."
-- H.G. Wells
"Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love."
-- Miguel Angel Ruiz
Sunday, January 11, 2015
Museum of Natural Curiosity and the Days Beyond
Sure enough, by the time the group was ready to leave, he decided to stay home with Ben. Jeff was having a sick day. The Golden family went to a family party and missed the outing as well.
Newland had to stop and play in the snow on his way to the car.
Off to the Museum of Natural Curiosity at Thanksgiving Point we went.
Eli might have been a tad too big for this kiddie play area...
Let's just say if I ever came across a spider as big as those in the display case, I would FREAK OUT!
I spy with my little eye...(and my magnifying glass up to my eye)...
...cousins Carson and Eli at the other table.
The climbing jungle gym was so big and had so many outlets it made a mother (and a grandmother) very anxious about losing the children. At this point I had lost the child I was in charge of, but was so happy to see Sarah and Klarissa.
The water area was a big hit with all the children.
Carson performing a magic trick.
Sunday morning Abe, Klarissa and Newland flew back to San Francisco. Their Christmas vacation had come to an end. So glad they had made us a part of their holiday!!
Ours kept on going with the Golden family here for Sunday dinner. Of course that meant popcorn! Glen has trained all the grandchildren to know it's not Sunday without popcorn!
Madison was more interested in what she was finding in the pantry.
By this day Glen was feeling pretty hopeful about his shoulder surgery recovery...until later that evening when he started getting a bad cold.
Monday morning he insisted on helping me put away the Christmas decorations by taking all the ornaments off the Christmas tree and putting the tree in the box.
I thought he had way overdone it and insisted he let Ben carry the box downstairs and lift it up to the high shelf in the storage room. I feared the crazy man would try to do that by himself!?!?!
This is what happens when you overdo it after surgery!!!!!!!
Not really. It's what happens at the end of a physical therapy session.
It felt like Glen's cold had turned instantly into a bad sinus infection. He was feeling terrible and did not want to go to physical therapy, but he forced himself to go nonetheless.
Another snow day. Thanks for the shoveling once again, Ben!
Glen went to physical therapy again the same week--on New Year's Eve day. He is doing the finger ladder. He could only walk his fingers up to step #24 with his right hand.
Then he demonstrated with his left arm how he can get those fingers clear up to step #35. (Right
arm--take notice!)
Glen kept with tradition of many other of our New Year's Eves when he gets really sick (or in the case a couple of years ago--he had gall bladder surgery that day) and then we don't get to do anything fun to celebrate the holiday.
I wasn't expecting much this year, so I was prepared for being homebound. What I was not prepared for was how sick Glen was that day. He debated whether to go to the doctor the next day, but then felt like he was making a rally and was going to pull out of it on his own.
He decided he felt good enough to go to Texas Roadhouse on January 3rd to celebrate Dallas's birthday.
Here's the birthday boy (and a couple of his kids) on the birthday saddle. "YEE HAW!!!!"
Despite my pleading to do otherwise, Glen insisted he was well enough to travel by himself to Minnesota the first week of January. This is how high he could get his arm up the wall the day he left. Don't let that smile fool you. He was definitely feeling pain.
Off he went into the bitter cold of Minneapolis where they closed down the schools because of the minus 30+ windchill factor.
Glen really missed his ice cooler machine while he was gone. Balancing a bag full of ice on his shoulder wasn't nearly as effective as his blue ice pad.
He battled his head cold (along with the cold outside) and survived his week away. He still wasn't feeling the greatest on Thursday when he got home, but he was just sure he was on the mend.
Imagine my surprise on Friday when he informed me he had made a doctor's appointment. He had been so miserable all night long. He had a fever and the doctor gave him antibiotics for a sinus infection. He was so absolutely, miserably sick all day and all through the next night until the drugs kicked in. Poor guy!
It was hard for him to feel improvement in the surgery area when he was feeling so very miserable in the rest of his body.
Thankfully by Saturday evening he was much improved. I say thankfully because he has insisted once again that he is well enough to travel again this week. So tonight I drove him to the airport so he could fly away to the big freeze once again. Here's hoping for a better week, Glen!!
GLENISMS:
A few days after shoulder surgery: "I hate recovery! I just wanna be all better."
The day he finally went to the doctor, on January 9th: "I haven't felt good all year!"
Quotes of the Week
"I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong."
-- Benjamin Franklin
"What's right isn't always popular. What's popular isn't always right."
-- Howard Cosell
"Sometimes walking away has nothing do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but because we finally realize our own."
-- Robert Tew
"There is nothing stronger in the world than gentleness."
-- Han Suyin
Thursday, January 8, 2015
The Day After Christmas
The day after Christmas Glen and I were up and at 'em early. Glen had a doctor's appointment.
He got his stitches out. After the doctor took a look at his shoulder, he gave Glen the okay to start physical therapy. Glen likes the drawing the doctor made on his arm during surgery.
Back home, the kids were eating a late breakfast.
Glen showed Eli and Carson how his shoulder ice pad worked and let them feel the coldness.
When everyone was ready, we moved the group from the house to the church. Some of the grandchildren had gotten new scooters for Christmas and it was a great place to let the scooterers try out their new scooters since there was snow on the ground outside.
How can anyone play reindeer games without reindeer antlers???
Apparently once Santa Claus, always Santa Claus.
Ben and Bear even got antlers.
The little kids are attacking Ben trying to get him to play reindeer games with them.
"Come on, Uncle Ben!!!"
A rousing game of Musical Prancers (musical chairs).
Everybody line up for Mad Dasher. (Sarah, forgive me if I am calling these activities the wrong name. I am referring to your blog picture showing all your Reindeer Games' names and trying to put the right name with the right activity.)
I don't know what the obstacle course was called. Maybe it was Blitzen's Boot Camp. First up--Brooke and Caroline.
Next was Newland and Spencer with their mommy helpers.
Carson and Caroline.
Looks like it's Donner, Donner, Elf (Duck, Duck, Goose) and Brooke called Elf on Abe. Off he goes chasing her around the entire gym.
Freeze Dancering (Freeze Tag) was hilarious when the order was shouted for everyone to FREEZE!!
Good one, Eli!
Some more great poses!
Brooke was so happy her grandpa was taking such good care of Bear for her.
Comet's Chimney Toss (toss the ball in the bin).
Last game Run, Run Rudolph!! (Or Scooter, Scooter Rudolph if you were a kid who preferred scootering to running.)
Let's give Sarah a big cheer for organizing such a fun family activity!!! It was awesome!
Abe and Klarissa left us in charge of Newland for a while and Sarah continued on with her orchestrating making little people happy that day as she helped Newland feel not too unhappy that his parents were no longer in sight.
Once her charms wore off, she resorted to "Curious George" to keep Newland happy.
He got his stitches out. After the doctor took a look at his shoulder, he gave Glen the okay to start physical therapy. Glen likes the drawing the doctor made on his arm during surgery.
Back home, the kids were eating a late breakfast.
Glen showed Eli and Carson how his shoulder ice pad worked and let them feel the coldness.
When everyone was ready, we moved the group from the house to the church. Some of the grandchildren had gotten new scooters for Christmas and it was a great place to let the scooterers try out their new scooters since there was snow on the ground outside.
We were also excited to play Reindeer Games--which Sarah had made up and played with Jeff's family last Christmas. She got Ben busy hiding some pictures for one of the games.
Sarah had her poster ready for the children to take turns picking which game they wanted to play. Such games as Fixin' Up Vixen, Cupid's Caroling, Blitzen's Boot Camp, etc.How can anyone play reindeer games without reindeer antlers???
Apparently once Santa Claus, always Santa Claus.
Ben and Bear even got antlers.
The little kids are attacking Ben trying to get him to play reindeer games with them.
"Come on, Uncle Ben!!!"
A rousing game of Musical Prancers (musical chairs).
Everybody line up for Mad Dasher. (Sarah, forgive me if I am calling these activities the wrong name. I am referring to your blog picture showing all your Reindeer Games' names and trying to put the right name with the right activity.)
I don't know what the obstacle course was called. Maybe it was Blitzen's Boot Camp. First up--Brooke and Caroline.
Next was Newland and Spencer with their mommy helpers.
Carson and Caroline.
Freeze Dancering (Freeze Tag) was hilarious when the order was shouted for everyone to FREEZE!!
Good one, Eli!
Some more great poses!
Brooke was so happy her grandpa was taking such good care of Bear for her.
Comet's Chimney Toss (toss the ball in the bin).
Last game Run, Run Rudolph!! (Or Scooter, Scooter Rudolph if you were a kid who preferred scootering to running.)
Let's give Sarah a big cheer for organizing such a fun family activity!!! It was awesome!
Abe and Klarissa left us in charge of Newland for a while and Sarah continued on with her orchestrating making little people happy that day as she helped Newland feel not too unhappy that his parents were no longer in sight.
Once her charms wore off, she resorted to "Curious George" to keep Newland happy.
Looks like it's working to keep her boys happy as well.
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